Embracing Choice: Building a Life Beyond Survival

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Embracing Choice: Building a Life Beyond Survival


Do you find yourself trapped in a cycle of survival, where life becomes a constant struggle to meet basic needs and obligations?

Take my advice: you need a profound shift in your mindset. I'm serious.

Building a life based on choice rather than mere survival means embracing the transformative power of choice and creating a life that goes beyond survival.

Follow this simple road map:

  1. Recognize Your Survival Mindset: The survival mindset is rooted in scarcity and fear. It is driven by the need to meet immediate obligations, maintain security, and fulfill societal expectations. However, living solely in survival mode restricts our ability to make choices aligned with our true desires and passions. Recognize the limitations of the survival mindset and open yourself to the possibilities that come with embracing choice. Call these limitations by dirty names.

  2. Shift to an Abundance Mindset: Embracing choice begins with cultivating an abundance mindset. This mindset acknowledges that resources, opportunities, and possibilities are abundant and not limited. By shifting our focus from scarcity to abundance, we free ourselves from the constraints of survival and open up new avenues for growth, fulfillment, and self-expression. If you must, have blind faith that there is more waiting for you.

  3. Clarify Your Values & Priorities: To build a life based on choice, it is crucial to identify and clarify your core values and priorities. Take the time to reflect on what truly matters to you and align your choices with those values. By consciously prioritizing what brings you joy, meaning, and fulfillment, you can design a life that reflects your authentic self. Don't fool yourself into thinking that what they have is what you want. Only you know what you want.

  4. Design a Life of Purpose: Living a life beyond survival involves discovering and living in alignment with your purpose. Explore your passions, talents, and strengths to uncover the unique contribution you can make to the world. Cultivate a sense of purpose and infuse it into your daily choices, actions, and decisions. By living with purpose, you create a life that is rich in meaning and fulfillment.

  5. Embrace Personal Growth and Learning: Choice-driven lives are rooted in continuous personal growth and learning. Commit to lifelong learning and personal development to expand your horizons, acquire new skills, and enhance your abilities. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and view setbacks as valuable lessons that propel you forward. By investing in your personal growth, you increase your capacity to make informed choices and create a life of abundance. This doesn't have to mean spending thousands of dollars. It can mean trading 1-hour scrolling reels for listening to a new podcast.

  6. Take Ownership of Your Life: Ultimately, building a life based on choice requires taking ownership of your circumstances and decisions. Recognize that you have the power to shape your life and make choices that align with your values and aspirations. Take responsibility for your actions and embrace accountability. By doing so, you reclaim the power to create the life you desire.

I believe you can break free from the constraints of the survival mindset and consciously design a life that reflects your values and priorities. Do you?

Until next time,

Mel Abraham


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